driving for long hours with a toddler can be quite challenging. chances are they will want to get out of their car seat 5 minutes after you left the driveway. if you want to stay sane and enjoy your family road trip, you have to be a little prepared. here's what works for us and Leo, some of these may come in handy for you in the future!
make sure the kid is well rested. of course this is a no brainer, a tired tot can be a pain in the... neck, ha! and since no one in this universe knows why all kids, instead of just going to sleep when they're tired, rather cry and weep for extended periods of time, you want to make sure yours has had enough sleep before you get in a car for hours. if that isn't possible and you're counting on the car ride to help them fall asleep, think ahead and bring whatever may help them relax. whether it's a blanket, softie or a paci, bring it along.
entertainement is also a must, but it can be tricky to amuse and please them because, well, let's face it, they will get bored of whatever you're trying after 5 minutes or so.
first of all, we never, ever rely on portable DVDs or iphones or whatever modern technonoly has to offer for entertainement, but that is a personal choice for the moment. maybe when he gets older we'll introduce these devices but for now we feel that those aren't necessary and that he can do without just fine. actually same thing goes when we're home; no tv, no computer. we just do other stuff to keep him entertained and so far, it works great.
things that do work with us are:
- music (no kids music tho, because that would drive us insane, haha) that has good rythm. among Leo's favorites, there's Bob Marley, the Beatles, the Smiths, oldies (50's rock n roll), CCR and Elvis. something the whole family can enjoy. of course we throw in there a few family sing along with him, as he likes to sing alot!
- a favorite toy or softie is always nice too, and i always (always) carry a spare toy in my diaper bag, juuust in case.
- little games of can-you-spot-a *insert whatever may be spotted where you're at* is a classic, and Leo gets all kinds of excited when he finds an ambulance, plane or police car. simple and efficient.
when we have to stop (for gas, for example) we all step out of the car to wiggle our legs a little and get some air. if the area allows it, we will run around and play a bit, and eat a little snack to give us the extra energy we need to successfully get where we're headed. speaking of snacks, we never, EVER leave the house without healthy snacks on hand and cold water. eating healthy on the road is quite the task, so you gotta make sure you can satisfy your littles' stomach on demand. i know most people wouldn't mind to give a bag of Cheetos and a sugary beverage as a snack, but we made a personal choice of always giving our kid healthy alternatives (and hey, if you think about it, it's much cheaper too!). plus, since Leo is allergice to peanuts, we have to make sure he can eat safely even when on the road.
a typical snack is consisting of:
- home made "party mix": in a spill proof cup, i mix in cereals like Cheerios, dried fruits (cranberries, raisins...), and an assortment of organic crackers - we love
Annie's and
Mum-Mum rice biscuits!
- fresh fruits : apple slices, a pear or a banana and we're good to go.
- Leo loves
these gluten free chewy bars, so i always make sure i have one on me.
- water, and lots of it. essential.
sure it requires minimum preparation but it's well worth it. actually, a snack is a must even for short trips. saves you money and you don't have to wait until you find a store to get a snack, as it's right there in your bag. cuts the whining time in 2 ;)
finally, we keep a little shoe box in the car, under a seat, containing a change of clothes, a diaper and a few wipes. that little box is there for emergencies for situations like "hey i thought i had packed enough diapers? oopsy!" or if you kiddo gets sick and his clothes need to be changed. a life saver, honnestly.
hope these were helpful tips!